Good morning my furiends...how is everyone? Unfortunately, today is not so good for me and my Meowmmy. Some of you may remember my last post where I shared my problems with being scared... even with her. Meowmmy has been trying to help me with kitty massage, anti anxiety music, sprays, good play sessions, treats, bonding time and good ole fashion XoXo's. At first, I took to the music and spent a great couple of days loving all over mom... just like the old days . Sadly it didn't last and now I'm right back where I started... maybe even worse. I have no clue why I'm so scared and untrusting of my own mother and siblings, but it Sucks.
I spend my days and nights hiding away under a bed instead of being with my family. The past couple of days I've only been out for maybe 20mins of the whole day, just to eat and use the potty. The rare times I am out, I can't even be within eye shot of my mom, I'll choose to sit behind her. It makes me so sad bcuz I can always hear my Meowmmy crying. I guess I can't help her when I can't even help myself. I so miss the days of waking up at Meowmmy side and staying there all day...we were so close.
Am I a weirdo,or has other kitties out there been where I am right now. I'm asking you to PLEASE HELP me and my family get back the loving and trusting relationship we once had. If anyone can think of a good way to help me mend my relationships with my family PLEASE SHARE...it will be greatly appreciated. Thank You! -Whisper 😽😽😽😽
MY STORY #plzread # #pinkoctober 🎀 I have had multiple fibroadenomas since I was in my teens and underwent three surgeries till date (first one being at 17). Fibroadenomas need not be harmful if they are small (less than 3cm) or non-cancerous. However, if they grow to more than 3cm in length, you should definitely have a chat with your doctor. Sometimes even a 3cm or 4cm is not harmful, but it’s all about your thoughts and if you are comfortable living with it. I had quite a few more than 3cm in length and this was definitely stressing me out, hence I decided to have them removed. I still have many fibroadenomas but they are less than 3cm in length. There is no treatment for fibroadenomas unless you reach the age of menopause, when it is said to disappear or stop growing. The best I can do is to have a every six month scan to keep track of them.
It is very common for females to have fibroadenoma or multiple fibroadenoma, and most of the time one wouldn’t even notice it. It is therefore important for all females to have an ultrasound done at least once a year below the age of 40 or mammography once a year above the age of 40. If unattended, there is always a risk of it becoming cancerous, especially if your maternal family had a history of breast cancer.
Since the age of 17 I’m doing yearly breast checkup and now I am doing it every six months. Health is everything to me 🙏🏼
There is no shame or embarrassment in getting your checks done (even if u feel u don’t have anything). I believe staying healthy is the best asset you can have 🙏🏼❤️
Addiction. I have been wanting to talk about this for a while now. Someone i love very much is suffering from addiction. Maybe it's just me but i feel this is a silent problem that not a lot of people talk about, but today im changing that. It's time I speak up about something that ive been struggling with.
When someone you love is an addict, you're filled with a mix of emotions. You're sad, scared, overwhelmed, angry, and feeling so helpless. Seeing someone repeat the cycle of addiction-relapse-sobriety is frustrating and exhausting. And every time they relapse you grieve the loss of the person before the addiction.
I have yet to find an answer or a way to help this person. And there's not much i can do since i live in cactus town and they are in a completely different state. But i can tell you what i have been doing. I see a therapist, i have started listening to podcasts (The Sober Families Podcast), i talk about it with people im close to, and i exercise. All of these things have helped, but im still left with some sadness and pain. All i can do is pray and hope that they get the help they need and find peace.
I know this is a touchy subject but id love to hear from any of you that have dealt with this from either end of it.
Thanks for listening.
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