Do you vibe with me? It’s been a while … *takes a sip of water* let’s begin.
When you naturally have a healing aura, you attract a lot of damaged people, and having them in your life could drain your energy to the max. This is a reminder that it’s not your job to heal everyone that you encounter. You can’t pour from an empty cup. Take care of yourself first.
One of the most important things I learned is that you have to stop expecting “YOU” from others. I have a naturally giving character - I don’t want to please everyone, but I do want to help everyone. Especially if I respect you and care about you. Sometimes I am taken advantage of. Sometimes it’s taken the wrong way. Not everyone vibes on this frequency and that is not necessarily a bad thing. I learned, that just because people don’t treat me exactly how I would treat them, doesn’t mean that they’re coming at me with malicious intent.
I’ve been bullied so much in the past that deep down I often feel like people are out to hurt me, even though on a surface level I know that they’re not. Consequently, I take things personally because I wouldn’t act the same way in return. It’s a flaw and I am writing it out to acknowledge the fact. If you find yourself in a situation where someone reacts (or doesn’t react) in a way which you would … don’t jump to the conclusion that they are coming with ill-intent.
More often than not, we create scenarios in our minds that are skewed towards a one sided perception. There are many factors that impact peoples reactions and since it’s impossible for us to know all of them, we will never fully understand their point of views. One of my favorite sayings is: “if you’re pleasantly surprised, your expectations were too low.” Lowering your expectations [or not having them at all] is a great place to start.
Did this resonate with you? Lets chat.