THIS for me today was so sad, so heartbreaking but also made me so angry
For somebody to go online and troll people that they don’t even know nor has done anything horrible to them personally, for them to openly judge and publicly shame them and say absolutely disgusting things about them its horrific
Theres always a reason behind why someone is a bully, 9 times out of 10 its because they are self conscious and think by saying horrible, disgusting, manipulating things to others it will make them feel better ❌❌❌❌
Throughout the documentary one thing stood out to me what she said ‘people these days are not bothered about talent or qualities anymore, people judge on your appearance’ and thats the truth, thats what society is now
Personally speaking from experience i have had hurtful jibes and they stick with you for the rest of your life, i find that i do this thing on a regular basis .... I put myself down and say things what i think the other person is thinking about me anyway? So for example if i gain weight and i see somebody I’ve not saw for a while i will say ‘omg, I’ve gained about 90 stone’ because i want to let them know I’m fully aware that I’ve gained weight because i think thats what their thinking 💭 Does anybody else do this?!
I will never forget this one quote my mum and dad brought me up on............ ‘Treat people how you would like to be treated’ and its as simple as that
Steer clear of negativity, that will only bring you down, stay positive and surround yourself with positivity. When people compliment you, try not to ignore the compliment, try not to put yourself down. Life’s tough enough 😘
Be the person your 8 year old self would be proud of.
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Over the weekend I was grateful to have helped a young fella under epileptic attack and I was surprised to have witnessed how a lot of people were so unwilling to help the young fella and it saddened 😞my heart to see that a lot of Nigerians still think epilepsy to be contagious.
Please o! according to @who epilepsy is a chronic noncommunicable disease of the brain that affects people at all ages and it's as a result of excessive electrical discharges in a group of brain cells.
Swipe 👉 to see how you can render help to any individual who has epilepsy. Mbok they are going through a lot already don't make your reaction, comments or you're stigmatizing them be one of them.
Please tag any friends or loved ones into this post so that people understand that epilepsy is not #contagious and what they can do to help.
I notice with a lot of self care pages or posts I’ll see things like “it’s ok to cancel plans”, “it’s ok to take time for yourself”, “it’s ok to stop being friends with somebody for self care” and it definitely is. HOWEVER, some of y’all are just being flat out assholes in the name of “self care” & I ain’t here for it!⠀
Yes, you can cancel plans but actually cancel them. Don’t say you’re going to show up somewhere & have people waiting on you in the name of “self care”. It takes a minute to let somebody know you can’t make it. The same goes with taking personal time. Granted, you don’t need to explain to people when you need time for yourself but if your loved ones are trying to check on you or are worried about you, let them know you’re okay & that you just needed some space, don’t just ignore people who care about you. Don’t just end a friendship without speaking to the person (this doesn’t go for toxic friends). Some disagree with me on this but idgaf, the decent thing as a human is to let the other know you will be going your own way. Not because you have to ask permission or because you OWE them an explanation but because: why hurt somebody’s feelings unnecessarily? Why be a dick when you could just be a kind person?⠀
Self care is super important & it is also super important to prioritize yourself but it doesn’t give you an excuse to treat people on your life like shit because of it. Ghosting people isn’t cool & expecting people to have the door wide open for you whenever you decide to stop being an ass isn’t cool either. Treat people the way you want to be treated 🗣🗣!⠀
With love, Neptune ✨⠀
Tidak perlu muluk, membuat orang lain tersenyum adalah tanda bahwa kamu sudah mengekspresikan kebaikan. Terkadang, banyak orang yang tidak sadar bahwa dirinya itu alasan orang lain merasa sedih. .
Orang yang tidak bisa berbuat baik adalah orang yang tidak cukup kuat untuk mendahulukan orang lain, bahkan mungkin tidak cukup alasan untuk mendapatkan keuntungan dari orang lain. Tetaplah menjadi pribadi yg baik dimanapun karena memang demikianlah kita diciptakan untuk menjadi serupa dan segambar denganNya. ☺️😇
Ugh.. Monday again🥺!
But hey Monday doesn’t always have to suck! Be positive, dress up and make yourself and someone else happy 😊 .
If you have difficulty fighting against Monday blues, hopefully the stars in the photo is gonna help brighten up your day😘
How do you guys usually fix Monday blues? Leave it? Or actually do something about it? .
So the last couple of years have been, in all honesty, an f'ing struggle. In June 2017, I had a nasty bite from (what I was told at the time) a spider. It was seriously not fun. What has followed on since has not been fun either but, I have slapped on the face & just got on with stuff. I was prescribed some strong antibiotics which made me feel absolutely sick BUT I stuck with them for the duration as I didnt want an infection. In these past two years, I have struggled with severe fatigue, aching joints, sickness, anxiety, diarrhoea, nerve issues in my face, continuous pins & needles in my hands, headaches, losing a tooth (which part dropped out while shopping in Tesco). I have had a couple of episodes of something called "rigors", my memory is really not as it was & I now deal with something called "gastritis" on a daily basis (brought on by the strong antibiotics). My body just feels battered & bruised along with my confidence.
After two years of these weird things that've been happening & an MRI, I have been referred to a neurologist who, having requested my last three years medical records (& seeing pics of my bite(s) which he is sure were ticks & not spiders) I am now awaiting an appointment for a lumbar puncture. The neurologist is looking at two possibilities at the moment:- Lymes Disease OR Multiple Sclerosis.
The reasoning being that both of these can present very similar, if not, some of the same symptoms.
My reason for writing all of this down is not to beg & plead for sympathy or lovely comments; it's to make people understand. Understand that I may not always seem like my usual jolly self. Doesnt mean I am angry/depressed/rude; its just some days, getting up is hard let alone doing normal day2day stuff. Most days are good but as quick as snapping my fingers, my body can just deflate, feel fatigued, ache like its never ached before. Some days I can be in bed at 7.30pm...other days I can stay up til the early hours. Anyway, I'll stop boring the shit out of everyone but I just ask one thing.
Be mindful of everyone around. Surround yourself with positivity. Cherish your health & those close to you. Give the compliments & BE NICE #benice
it's free to be a kind person.
what's more than that, it is
to be a kind person.
I'm not saying be fake or phony or fradulent.
I'm not saying to engage in toxic positivity.
I'm not saying you should allow yourself to be treated poorly.
what I am saying is that being mean, unkind, and hurtful can be more harmful to you than the person you intend to harm with your words.
believe me, it can also do some heavy damage to the person you threw those heavy words at.
kindness is a muscle that should be strengthened.
it's not often our reflex to respond in kindness, so let's collectively focus and flex that muscle this week, friends.
Spontaneous sketch, but this is a bit personal hun. First this is a homage to the NOT IMPRESSED generation. Why? Because they are really not impressed. Rich. Not impressed. Poor. Not impressed. Sick. Healthy. Famous. Idols. No idols. Not impressed. They play ping pong with u. Not impressed. Please this does not mean that you are arrogant. But being not impressed as a state of mind is helpful not to judge fast and helpful to have your eyes wide open. Then you can care better of your own life and the ones that you love. So I am a bit proud that sometimes the youth is wiser. Do more art not war. Happy week everyone. #drawing#pencildrawing#spontaneous#sketch#pencilsketch#art#instaart#bedifferent#benice#becourageous#itallaboutart#leanback#lerntotrust#instaart#art#gayart
Once you are aware of the cruelty involved in all the ways we use animals.. food, clothing, entertainment, experiments etc it becomes clear that veganism is the answer ❤️ #nonviolence#compassion#kindness
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Finished a customers build I always appreciate the work and the patience thank you 🙏
be nice to others & always be nice to YOU. something i consistently see, especially within sick people, is lacking to do or show ourselves doing the things that make us happy bc it isn’t perceived under other’s ‘idea’ of how someone who’s sick ‘should’ be & the activities we ‘can’ participate in. it’s thought to be that people living with disabilities are expected to naturally be miserable & not care, talk or do anything that doesn’t have to do with their health. when in reality, i’m worried about trivial things like what snacks i’m going to pick out at whole foods or how i accidentally used waterproof mascara instead of normal mascara.😅 we shouldn’t have to wait to get better until we’re happy or do things that make us feel ALIVE, even if it’s just a photo op🥴
just because we have to accommodate for our illnesses, doesn’t mean our lives always have to revolve strictly around them. life is about the small things. the lows. the highs. everything in between.
it all goes back to being nice to YOU. if you made it to a concert; video’d dancing in your wheelchair; booked a last minute flight & traveled somewhere new; pushed your limits to accomplish a hike; tried out a bold lipstick color; went in for a new treatment & documented it; signed up for college courses; got a new job; went to your high school dance; made it to church with your fam; got dressed up just to have your pictures taken & not go anywhere; BE HAPPY. POST IT, ENJOY EVERY MINUTE OF IT. i’d celebrate every exciting moment with you if i could. share all the happiness! do YOU! it’s your account, your life & YOUR body. no one knows the behind the scenes behind things you do; the meltdowns, the anxiety, the pain, the time+energy it took, the accommodations made & how much YOU pushed to get there.
SICK ISN’T A PERSONALITY TRAIT. IT’S A CIRCUMSTANCE. if people have a problem with you showing the highs + happy times that you have in the midst of the chaos, those are people who don’t really matter anyway. so be nice, to others. but most importantly, be nice to YOU. when you choose to live & not just ‘exist’, that’ll always be something to celebrate.🌟 #benice#mybodyhurts#butmyheartisfull
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✨Be a nice human. That is all✨
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"Be a nice human." ✌🏻 .
Got lots of DMs about this photo last week! Collars are from @big_dog_chains, shirt is from @amazon and they’re both male Dobermans. We live with 5 rescues and our family watches our dogs closely. More info on them with @amyeiler 🐾
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Maya says be nice.
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