Posing narcissists pretend to be happy, warm, intuitive-type people. This is a sign of weakness and despicable unworthiness, because without cowardly lying, tricks & treachery, how would the narc dads get female Her Mother/Moms & Mom-types to serve, marry, breed, sex, give up their dreams, and follow the maneuvering, manipulative narcs’ stupid, self-centered, vain plans?
No better way to kill a mood than mentioning a prenup 😍😞. Alternative reasons to get a prenup: 1) protect future income from being automatic “marital” money, 2) ensure your spouse can’t renounce your will if you die while married (google that 🤓)
The female Her is born highly intuitive, of warmth, and limitlessly smart. Narcissists are born without the intuitive ability, of a range necessary for higher intuitive radiant function. When an intuitive female Her or Mom-type radiant intuitive male is traumatized at a young age, the results are often the production of an empath, among many other not-so-nice permutations. Intuitivity is about infinitude, and empathy is based on the simplicity of the limits of the trauma. But both intuitivity and empathy are powered by intuitive function. Normal common academic intelligence limits intuitivity. It binds intuitive ability, and greatly blocks out intuitive higher ability, harmfully. Of course, the true narcs lack intuitive awareness and radiant ability, as well as the powers of the condition of empathy. The true narcissists and the comfortable infrastructure of limited intelligence are the “cancer” that is, and has always been, sickening and destroying the world, by toxically infecting the females from young. The intuitive females and the Mom-type males, infected by toxifying elements of narcissists, exhibit the behavior of narcissists, but this is merely a condition that can be reversed through cleaning, whereas the toxicity is what the true #narcissist basically is. The true narcissist pretends to be nice, sweet and kind, when he is truly not, whereas the infected narcissist is a happy-type person, that was either bullied or traumatized from a toxifying narcissist, to contract the toxicity, and then is powerless to act out the narcissist behavior, as though it’s truly them, when it’s not. Can you spot the difference between a true narcissist and a narc-infected victim, who acts like one, but truly isn’t one? I can, with simple books, help assist a female Her Mother/Mom or Mom-type to develop that skill.
How we do sunsets. #malibumagic .
We did go back for more tonight. Kind of obsessed. .
Love how unexpected things (always) turn out the sweetest. This whole trip was again a case in point for looking for and finding silver linings. Grace in the details..... #lifeisbetterdonetogether
When you emerge and you start to see yourself for the first time. Don't you dare let anyone try to take her from you. 💪🏽
5 505 hours ago
If you’re like me, many of us put focus on everyone else’s needs before our own. Make it a goal to start “putting your mask on first before assisting others”. If you don’t take care of YOU, mind/body/spirit, you won’t be able to help anyone else.
“How sharper than a serpents tooth it is to have a thankless child.” -William Shakespeare
Last night, after all of the kids went to sleep, I lost it outside in my garage. I completely lost it.
It is always very apparent to me when my step-daughters have been exposed to bad mouthing at their Mom’s house.
They spent extra time this last week with their mom and when they returned to us on Friday, they were so disconnected, so over the top tired and wanted nothing to do with me and their Dad.
We were so heartbroken.
Saturday came around, and still our attempts for connection is rewarded with more hurtful behavior and feelings of defeat.
I am crying out and losing it in this picture because it hurts me so deep to my core😩
I love and care about them SOOOOO MUCH! I would do just about anything for them. I so desperately want to connect with and and comfort them but they will not let me in 95% of the time.
“Healthy parents regard it as their job to facilitate the child’s adjustment, not let the child’s fears or uncertainty dictate the child’s behavior and withdrawal from a normal, developmentally appropriate relationship to the school. The same standard should apply for divorced parents.” - Dr. Richard A. Warshak
Each week they relearn how to love us and in the process they are suffering.
They are confused, they have questions about whether they can trust us or if they are safe here- we have to show them each week all over again that yes! They are with trustworthy and safe adults who love and care about them.
Whether the bad mouthing is intentional or not- this is how it affects all children.
I can’t sugarcoat it any longer!!
Our children suffer the consequences when we can’t think carefully before we speak to them about the people they love deeply.
Remember, the parent you are badmouthing is a part of the child. You are bad mouthing the child when you are bad mouthing their parent or other loved ones of the child. -source unknown
𝙿𝚒𝚌𝚔 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚙𝚊𝚝𝚑 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚖𝚊𝚔𝚎𝚜 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚠𝚊𝚗𝚝 𝚝𝚘 𝚙𝚎𝚎 𝚊 𝚕𝚒𝚝𝚝𝚕𝚎. 💁🏼♀️⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Yes. Pick the one that scares you but that you have a yearning inside to do! Pick the one that feels a little unsafe but yet so fulfilling. Pick the one that makes you feel alive. You might be the only one that understands at first. You may have to be your own cheerleader. You may question your decision daily. You may wonder if you can actually succeed at this. That’s how you’ll know you are headed in the right direction. And when people in your life start doubting how far you can go, oh and they will... and they will tell you girlfriend, go so far that you can’t hear them anymore. Never stop believing in yourself. Never stop working for the life of your dreams. 🙌🏼
1 306 hours ago
#gochiefs 🎉🎉 Theyre my home state team so I’m allowed to be a bandwagon fan. 😜😂
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2 37 hours ago
I’m not a HUGE selfie lover because I feel silly taking pics in public & I feel@like it screams ‘give me a compliment’. Anyone else feel this way? 🤔🤔🤔 But..... as an entrepreneur & today’s social media...... it’s a must. And.... it’s #selfiesunday !! Vacation is a tone to unwind from daily life & have fun. A vacation with kids is a TRIP & without kids is a vacation. Although...... my kids are older so I actually love road trippin’ & going places with them. ♥️♥️ While in Vegas........ gotta say..... chiefs & 49ers to the #superbowl ! Who’s with me?! 🏈
For months after my relationship with a narcissist ended, I would find myself thinking that there were no options out there to feel better.
I would find myself thinking that this is just the lot I’d chosen, that maybe even I was super special for doing something so hard.
I would find myself obsessively worrying about my relationship with my son — would he start to see me as a monster?!
Until one day I realized - omg, I have been in hella victim mindset.
What’s tricky about victim mindset is that it seems to make us feel better. We are more afflicted… which makes us seem more worthy, nicer. If we are the victim, we clearly can’t be the perpetrator.
The first step to taking my life back meant letting go of these ideas, these fears, these safety mechanisms, these false dualities.
It meant recognizing that victim mindset is what got me into a relationship with a narcissist in the first place — and it certainly wasn’t going to free me now.
I had to decide to take my life back.
I had to find the right resources and say “yes” to them.
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1 278 hours ago
I’ve been debating on writing a blog post about my divorce. I was worried about sharing too much or not enough. Instead, I wrote more about my experience during the whole process. Link in my bio.
Well that was fun! This kid surprised me (which of course shouldn’t really be a surprise 😏😉😆)..... his team did amazing and I happened to notice through observation that we have officially been blessed with the greatest coach there is! 🤓 #wewin While all the other coaches are intense and demanding, ours is fun and encouraging - it’s no wonder all our boys are so happy. We’re just so grateful to be part of this team 💪🏼⚡️✨🌱 #lifeisbetterdonetogether#ymcagymnastics
😴Are you stuck in your CZ????
Believe me...I know, sitting on your couch surfing Netflix, staying in bed all day, hunkering down and reading a book, doing the dreaded yard work, cleaning the kitchen for the thousandth time, making straight lines while vacuuming, throwing your hair in a messy bun and lounging. Anything, ANYTHING sounds better than taking a risk, right???🙅♀️
NOOOOOOOOOOO! Failure is a result of taking a risks. It happens to everyone…it will happen to you and it’s okay. The more risks you take, the more confidence you’ll build for the next time. Become OBSESSED with risk taking!💁♀️
Comfort Zone = Danger Zone
Taking Risks = Building Confidence
◾️Go to an amusement park by yourself. Those long lines are a great opportunity to meet people.
◾️Go to a wedding without a date. You may enjoy just being yourself and not having to “entertain” anyone.
◾️Go to a bar all alone. Pretty sure you won’t be alone for long…
◾️Smile and Say “Hi” to every person you come in contact with. Super awkward at first, but it gets easier…I promise!
◾️Join a local club (book club, archery, BINGO, church, running, moms group)
◾️Sign up for something that scares the poo out of you. For me, that would be a hip hop dance class. YIKES!
Get out of your CZ and get comfortable being uncomfortable.🙃
Tell me what your scariest thought is right now. What is something that you have wanted to do for a long time but have not done it yet? 👇👇👇👇👇👇
2 99 hours ago
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2 139 hours ago
Spending five days in the company of Arbitration and Mediation experts continues to deepen my knowledge of why mediation is such a powerful method of Alternative Dispute Resolution.
Sunday funday is going to be a busy one today! Breakfast with mama, workouts, football, basketball games and then a little lady’s 7th birthday! Going to enjoy a few hours of quiet watching this chiefs game with my favorite guy @troystubbs before the chaos begins!
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Gabrielle - Puranshant Kaur
You.Can.Do.This. I get so many messages about marriage, separation, and divorce. Divorce sucks. But no one has ever left a happy marriage. Keep your head up. Treat others the way you would like to be treated. Know that in the end, your peace is priceless. 💗✌🏼You got this. And if you don’t got this, but need to get this- I’m here for you. 📲
🤍 it's going to be alright. Had a good cry on lunch, came back into work and kept it moving. Release those emotions. It's good for us. @mz_tastycakez2121 thank you for being my space and for loving me even on my bad days.