To have a healthy relationship each person must have a specific role. Each partner should be good at their roles however it is very important for us as men to understand the struggles your spouse is going through on a day to day basis and vice versa. This requires you to communicate and even be involved with one another’s job duties so you can get a better understanding of what they have to deal with..
The concept of this image is we are trying to hold on to one another. The wife cant see the pressure that is placed on her husband on a daily basis as the leader of the family and the husband can’t see the pain that his wife endures day to day keeping everything else together..
Because of these two factors we tend to become frustrated due to our partners distractions. Relationships are not 50/50. We can never be perfect so if both only apply 50% they will fall way below 50% which leaves our partnership anywhere from 25%-35% effective..
Each person must give 100% of themselves every day. Again we will come well below this but because both husband and wife are giving their all your marriage will always be in an effective and operational range..
Give your wife everything you are. Nothing comes before her needs except God’s desires and since God has blessed you with her, He expects you to do so..
Get to know your spouses daily duties, stresses, thoughts, and goals for their upcoming week. Ask them if you can do anything to help remove those worries. This ensures a better understanding of the struggles and will allow you to help them where they need it..
In a marriage we are to become one. When one person is failing so is the partner. In a marriage it is never one person’s fault. It is always both because you are bonded by God as one..
It is our duty to ensure our spouses have as little distractions and stresses as possible. It doesn’t stop with ours. When your partner is well spirited they will be able to focus more on you..
Rolê com a gatinha hoje, dia de folga merecida / cara que faço depois de ver o preju 👀💸 kkkkkkkkk Aproveite os bons momentos, cuide do seu casamento, ninguém vai fazer isso por você!
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Dan mengapa kamu kuatir akan pakaian? Perhatikanlah bunga bakung di ladang, yang tumbuh tanpa bekerja dan tanpa memintal.
About three times in the last week I have been involved in discussions about the unserious nature of the #Christian#male with regards to choosing his #wife .
As a Christian male in the process of finding a wife I did contribute greatly to those discussions and I was surprised at the lack of understanding of men by our #women ; most of them are #spinsters in their #forties .
I will need to write a #book to share the things I would have #loved to #share but I will try to give short and brief #nuggets . ✅The Christian man has been brought up in a #society that is almost completely #carnal . He’s grown up believing that his #wife would meet his #personal#interpretation of society’s idea of beauty. He seeks a woman that fits that carnal picture.....
✅Women must teach men and society that they are “a good thing” which if found sets the blessed man on a path to fulfilling purpose.
✅Men are not as quick witted as women and in the rare case where we are, we could be very lackadaisical. Conversations should shift with the stages;
🔥Meeting Stage;getting to know each other, familiarisation. Talk is all pleasantries here.
🔥Checking Each Other Out. If you guys take a fancy for each other it is reflected by the smiles and text messages. Talk must NOT remain as in the familiarisation zone. Move it up a notch. Who are you and what are the constituents of “you”. This is important to engage each other’s minds. MAKE HIM DO THE SAME. He might need a nudge or he might not be interested and not even know. You need to know.
🔥What Next Zone. After you guys have talked, laughed, smiled, shared some secrets, shared your fears and expectations along with plenty of your experiences it’s time to take stock. You move into relationships mode or friend zone from here. DO NOT DITHER. Most of us are scared to speak and we just keep ourselves in dream #relationships that exist only in our minds.
If this goes well; great. If not; the process starts again. Let’s stop thinking we are in relationships when we are not or hoping that a relationship would develop without #proper#foundations laid.
The #MAN wants a #lady he can trust, that would respect him and who he will be proud of.
The #WOMAN wants....🤔
0 03 minutes ago
Hati yang gembira membuat muka berseri-seri, tetapi kepedihan hati mematahkan semangat.
bersyukur punya istri yang kayak @mahaniarifin yang selalu mendukung keputusan saya, baik, pengertian, dan menjengkelkan. .
She’s my negative vibe, yang punya pandangan negatif terhadap apa yang saya lakukan, dan saya beruntung, karna saya tipe yang buru-buru dan spontan dalam mengambil keputusan, jadi harus pikir beberapa kali dalam ambil keputusan. Bayangkan kalau dia positive thingking atas apa yang saya putuskan mungkin salah keputusan bisa kebablasan. .
Tipe yang selalu masak makanan sehat, dan ajak makan yang kurang sehat, yang selalu biarkan saya olahraga sepuasnya tapi dia malas olahraga jadi balance lah ya.. .
Begitulah, kita diciptakan berpasang-pasangan, berpikirlah sempurna dan bagi kesempurnaan itu dengan pasangan, jangan dibalik, jangan kurang sempurna dan mencari kesempurnaan dari pasangan, niscaya kamu akan menuntut dan selalu merasa kurang.
Don’t get me wrong I love working overnights. I never thought 💭 I would like it. In the past, especially when I had young kids I hated working overnights. Now after going through probably one of the worst and hardest times of my life and coming through it stronger than ever, working overnights is a blessing🙏🙏 what I GET to do now working those hours is the privilege and the blessing of watching my granddaughter 🥰😍 of spending time and just BEING here to watch her grow up and showing her all the love she deserves. Of seeing her change and grow and learn new things. I GET to be there for that in the front row🙌🙌👏👏 it also give me the chance to help my daughter @miss.sheenarenee when she needs me so she can make a living and follow her dreams knowing her daughter is loved and cared for while she is working her ass off to give them both a better life. It gives me the time to spend with my son. More then I ever had before to become closer. It also gives me time during the day I wouldn’t have if I works a regular day shift. I spend moments with my husband I couldn’t have before, to be here when he gets home from work and to have dinner cooked(most of the time) when he does get home. It gives me the chance to keep my recovery first, to go to my meetings anytime I want or need to. Because for me recovery comes first. Because without my recovery I would not have allllllll of these amazing moments and family in my life. So cheers 🥂(it’s only apple 🍎 cider in those glasses🤣) to recovery, family, grand babies, and working overnight shifts. #recovery#NA#family#daughters#sons#girlmom#boymom#grandaugters#swingshifts#wife#me
We've been knowing each other since 12 years ago. A year of nothing, 3 years of finding & 8 years of happiness. Thank you for giving me 2 wonderful kids. But, do you think that's enough? I dont think so, because we still have so much things to do. We will through life in different level,upside down. So please always be the most beautiful human being in my life. inside out, We love you. (Me & your 2 boys). -
@bigboombassin surprised me by taking the day off of work to do a family trip to the Christmas village at Baltimore's Inner Harbor today!
The market was smaller than we'd expected, but I'm happy to have went because I was able to pick up these nesting dolls for Killian. -
I'd seen other moms post lately about getting nesting dolls for their toddlers for Christmas, and I'd looked at some online that were painted like animals. I'm much happier with these from today - who says that toddlers can't enjoy beautifully crafted toys versus ugly plastic ones?
I'm going to have to wrap these tomorrow and hide them from myself, because that's the only way that I'll be able to resist giving them to Killian early. -
Has anyone else found a favorite Christmas gift that they can't wait to give their little ones???
3 219 minutes ago
🎄Date night at Christmas Market!!
We rarely have these romantic getaways but when we have the chance we make the most of it ❤️
The only sad part is that they don’t sell turkey legs anymore 😞 but we enjoyed our night with mulled wine, apple cider, walked hand and hand, laughed smiled and enjoyed dinner with guacamole and tacos!! 🌮 😋
Hoy @dah_sayago y yo celebramos nuestras Bodas de Acero... 🤵🏻👰🏻
Sí, 11 años de la mano, disfrutando de innumerables momentos de felicidad, que son los que quedan, y luchando contra episodios de adversidades, aur son los que nos enseñan. Y bueno, ya saben que fruto de estos 11 años juntos son tres maravillosos hijos.
Dios nos bendiga, y nos permita seguir sumando aniversarios, que también nos ayude a seguir aprendiendo el uno del otro, llenos de amor y comprensión 🙏🏻
Gracias, mi amor por todo este tiempo a tu lado. Gracias por el amor, por cada momento, por mis hijos, por esta historia que seguimos escribiendo 🤗😘
¡Te amo, princesa! Feliz Aniversario ❤
4 2528 minutes ago
Disclaimer: I did receive permission to post this photo online! I was doing some writing in the kitchen, listening to civil war tunes (don’t start), and Ashley came in, grabbed some accessories, and proceeded to march back and forth. I was delighted and more sure than ever in my choice of spouse. Even if she did make a few snarky comments after. #wife#fun#love#civilwarnerd#writer#stovepipehat#wrappingpaper